Posts Tagged ‘settle’

No Law Degree Needed to Know What’s Fair

Wednesday, April 18th, 2018

Many lawyers will tell potential clients that immediate action is needed to protect their rights and that they need to file a lawsuit now. This is often correct, as claims often go stale and witnesses forget what they have seen. However, in domestic relations law, sometimes the best practice can be resisting the urge to file a lawsuit and go to war.

Chancery courts are courts of equity, which means that the chancellors of those courts will seek to rule in a way that is the fairest to both parties. This allows clients who are not familiar with the process of a lawsuit to do a lot of the ground work themselves or through their attorneys. You do not need a law degree to know what is fair. Our office often receives calls from potential clients who have not talked to the other party about the situation, when that actually may be the best course of action.

Of course, sometimes lawyers may be more aggressive about starting a case than they should be. The thought process is that maybe the other side will realize what an inconvenience a lawsuit is and will be open to settling. While this may work sometimes, it seems like an unnecessary step in getting to what’s fair. Those two parties who once shared a bond or perhaps still share a child can only benefit from at least trying to communicate about what is fair to make it easier on everyone involved.

If you believe that a lawyer you meet with seems hell-bent on filing a lawsuit to get you what’s fair, you may want to speak to a different lawyer. When you leave that lawyer’s office, you should not feel as though you must file a lawsuit or they will not help you. Some parties only need the advice from a lawyer to try to talk to the other person, and in most situations it is worth the time and effort to try that. Otherwise, the nasty back-and-forth of a lawsuit will drain the time, resources, and emotions of the parties.

The lawsuit is a great thing that allows Americans to seek redress of the wrongs done to them. However, this process can also be abused. In chancery courts, where equity is king, sometimes the best option is to talk it out. If you visit a lawyer who seems to not consider that an option, a second opinion may be just what you need. If you or someone you know is going through a situation like this, call the Law Office of Matthew S. Poole. We have the experience in these matters and will give you an honest answer as to all of your options.

Frontline Prospective On Child Custody Law

Friday, April 13th, 2018

Working under Matthew Poole, a saying that I hear almost every day in the office is: “if everyone was reasonable, child custody lawyers would be out of a job.” As the main individual who handles calls to our office, I can tell you from first-hand experience that this is true. Working in a family law office can definitely show you the bad side of good people, and the people that call our office are usually in situations where tempers and emotions are high. As the person in our office who handles the majority of these calls, my perspective is that there are things that people can and should do to both save money and to help their situation in the long run.

From the start of my employment here, I noticed some commonalities between the variety of different calls we would receive on a daily basis. The main commonality in every call that we have received is lack of communication between the potential client and the person they are having issues with. If I could give any advice to those in these situations it would be that communication is key. There are so many situations where if the two people could just put differences aside and start a conversation with one another, it would save them so much heartache and money. After an extensive case study on custody matters, our office has found that 25% of people agree to settle their case with the same agreement that was offered to begin with. This shows that if the two people could just communicate without getting attorneys involved, they would not waste thousands of dollars on litigation; giving them more money to spend on the child.

I understand that communicating in situations like divorce and child custody can be tough. But in those circumstances, particularly when children are involved, being able to talk to the other side is vital. For instance, being able to have an open dialogue with the other parent in a child custody case can and will make it easier to deal with them later on down the road. Even though it’s hard, it would be so beneficial for the children if their parents were able to talk and communicate with each other about the children’s needs. It’s not easy for someone going through something like this to shelf their emotions and be the first one to reach out and start a dialogue, but in all honestly it is the best course of action to resolve their issue. To put it simply, every dollar spent on a lawyer could be spent on the kids. Why waste resources on litigation when simple communication could resolve the issue and leave that money available for the child? Doing so would dramatically decrease stress and replace it with tranquility. Just remember, the happier that a parent is, the happier the child will be.

Price is certainly something that most potential clients are sensitive to, and therefore we encourage all of our clients to attempt to talk with the other side as much as possible. Communication can help iron out many of the problems present, and can lower costs greatly for both parties. We understand this can be tough in a situation where there was a falling out of a once caring relationship. Unfortunately, there are times where starting a conversation is next to impossible and getting an attorney involved is the only option. If you believe hiring an attorney is your only avenue of relief, call the Law Office of Matthew S. Poole. We will do our best for you when communication has broken down in your relationship to get you a fair result.

Written by J. Tyler Cox, J.D. Candidate, Mississippi College School of Law, Class of 2018.