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Social Media

Saturday, June 17th, 2017

Social media is literally everywhere in our world. When used responsibly, it can be a great outlet for news and sports sources, as well as a way to better connect with old friends and family members. However, the negative effects of social media are well documented, and social media’s presence in domestic law is especially prevalent.

People on both sides of a relationship should be wary of social media use and how it may impact their relationships outside of the Internet. On one hand, Instagram likes or Facebook messages can be seen as done with devious intent by the other party in a relationship. This can obviously lead to situations where one party may be unfaithful to the other, or result in a total breakdown of trust between two people. Communication with someone online is often a reference point for why a relationship did not or cannot work. That being said, people should be careful about how these situations are approached. Assuming the worst can often lead to more distrust in relationships, and it may have been much ado about nothing. It is certainly a shame when two people decide to not be together over something that could easily be avoided.

Understandably, questionable online practices may make a spouse feel that they need to speak with a lawyer about how to approach that issue. However, as powerful as that urge may be, our office would caution people who contact a lawyer solely because of social media use. Without much other evidence of another spouse’s bad behavior, that behavior can be difficult to prove, and can lead to clients insisting there is foul play happening, leading a lawyer down a rabbit hole trying to grab at any proof they can. As appealing as speaking to a lawyer about a spouse’s social media use, our office encourages you to use your best judgment, and to be rather sure there is more to that Facebook message than just a friendly catch-up. If you have any problems with a spouse’s online presence and would like to contact our office, please give us a call at 601-573-7429.